It’s a matter of continuing controversy. Most say yes, some say no. Men and women argue about it and magazines frequent have articles on how much penis size matters.

Sometimes size definitely does matter. Joanne from San Francisco has this to say about her boyfriend:

“I have been dating a man for the last few months who I think is amazing. We get along so well and have so much in common, it’s great. The only problem in the relationship is when we have sex, I can hardly feel his penis inside me. It’s not wide or long enough to stimulate me. It doesn’t matter if he lasts for 5 or 45 minutes, I don’t get any pleasure out of it.

With other partners in the past i’ve been able to reach an orgasm within a few minutes of sex, but his penis is so small. I get embarrassed when I talk about details but I think his penis is around 4 and half inches and quite thin. I try to tell myself that it isn’t important but i’m becoming more and more frustrated, I deserve to have good sex with my partner and have orgasms like I did with other men.

Not only can I not orgasm when we have sex, but I don’t know if he feels any pleasure either, which makes me feel like less of a woman. I’ve been too embarrassed to talk to my friends about this, I don’t know what other women do in this situation. I’m upset and unsatisfied. I get along so well with this guy, I don’t want to lose him but the sex is so unsatisfying. Please help, what shall I do?”

There are a number of options they can try but first off she has to discuss the problem with him – and that is going to be difficult and may even push him away. Can you imagine how hard it is for a woman to tell her partner that she can’t feel his penis when they have sex?

Once they’ve discussed the issue, they can talk about the possible solutions for him so that Joanne receives the full sexual stimulation she needs to complete her relationship. There hundreds of sex toys available designed to be used during sexual intercourse, either on the clitoris or inside her vagina. Or her partner can use a sex toy on her either before or after sex. Penis stretchers, penis enlargement pills and exercises are now readily available if the man wishes to increase the size of his penis.

There are also a number of different penis enlargement options. Surgery is one of the most common but it is expensive and is a big risk to take. Most men won’t want to have surgery and it wouldn’t be fair for a woman to ask. Then there are penis pumps and penis stretching rings. These can have some enlargement effect but aren’t completely safe or designed for long term use. Experts say that penis pumps only provide a temporary solution through an increased blood flow to the penis.

There’s also natural penis enlargement exercises jelqing and specific penis stretches. When performed correctly these exercises will provide permanent results. Probably most commonly known are penis enlargement pills, which have worked for thousands of men and will increase the size of your penis. However, it is important to purchase a proven pill from a reputable company. There are many duff penis enlargement pills for sale on the internet.

Obviously is certain situations, size makes a big difference, not just in the bedroom but also as far as the comfort involved in the relationship.

Ask yourself is penis size matters to you or would it matter to your partner? if the answer is yes then take the time to do something about it.